It's not just guys who tend to be impatient. I recently broke off with a girl who wanted me to jump into the serious relationship thing who did NOT want to know me first like my bisexuality is a on-off switch. Along with a few other things., My end wants to build the trust. If that is a sexual turn off, fine.

"I think I fantasize about it, perhaps because I'm so disgusted with men that it seems the only other option. However, my family would freak out so I just work a lot. I dunno."

Hmm. Maybe it's time to come out. l certainly don't think that how your family feels should prevent you from being who you are, though l completely understand how challenging that is.

"I tend to lately have been more attracted to women than men, because hey, women are the more attractive sex. I am so disgusted by the men that have fucked over my trust, that they're just after sex and don't treat a woman with respect, they're just something to conquer and fuck over, that I am getting to the point where I'm not attracted at all anymore."

You DO know that it's dangerous to assume that a few bad experiences doesn't make all of them assholes, right? l'm not trying to be rude, honestly, l'm just pointing out the fallacy in this line of thought, and how it can negatively affect your reasoning behind what you're looking for.

"I've had enough sex with men in my life, they're boring to me at this point and I'm not really attracted to even a penis at this point. Funny how things change. A man to me looks rediculous naked and they're so hung up about their dicks, that's all they think about, they're just annoying."

Well, clearly, you've been hurt, and l understand the resentment, but there ARE men out there who aren't this way. And to be honest, there are women out there who'll mistreat you too.

"At clubs. Not the best way, mind you. All the women I'm atttracted to are in their mid 20's. All the woman that are attracted to me, in their mid-20's are too young to be comfortable with being bi. All the ones that are "women" that are attracted to me, are in their late 30's and I'm not attracted. Hey, I never said I wasn't complicated."

:)

You may find the kind of women you're looking for in a network. You'd be surprised at the number of young women who know exactly what they want and how. However, it's likely that the younger you go, the higher the chances that you *won't* find the maturity you're seeking. l know l''m stating the obvious, but it seems to be worth mentioning.

"Is it just LA? Doesn't matter where you go, they're all so full of shit."

l think it may have more to do with LA, to be honest. Sincerity and honesty aren't necessarily rampant in that particular town.

"Well I certainly wouldn't have a problem with it, but I am very busy. I think it would be difficult at this point, to say the least, but if I were to be in a realationship, I would prefer a female friendship + sex. Oh yea, but that's a "relationship" and gawd how scary is THAT?"

lt is scary, but it might be just what you need. Given your feelings towards men, it seems like it. l guess that my main thought is just to be sure about your reasons, and that it's not solely a rebound from men. Yanno?

LOL!

l know l'm not turning bi, but l want women much like men right now. l feel ya.