Actually, what you need to do is find out what your partner likes, or dislikes. Although I can understand what you're saying, remember that it doesn't apply to everybody. My lady has a number of orgasms during every blowjob she gives me, and some of them occur during the time that I'm doing exactly what you describe. So I'm going to assume she likes it. I don't do that the whole time, just a little here and there.

By the same token, when I go down on a woman, if she wants to grab me by the head and fuck my face, I assume that means she's enjoying herself, and take it as a good thing.

When I am giving oral and he wants me to take more in my mouth or to go faster, just say so. Otherwise when I'm licking pussy and she shoves my head in it, I'm also assuming that she loves it and will let her smother me to death.

Welcome to the world women have been dealing with - this is *far* from new (or appealing). (((cory)))

cory-Actually I happen to love it when a male boyfriend or partner does this to me!

It's even better when I get called names, spit on, having my mouth/throat used, I let him slap my face with his cock, and I lick/worship his hairy body has denim, leather, or a uniform on it along with leather boots.

I agree with Lester as well, it's best to not assume and to watch your partners body language or talk about what they like. I love it when my partner grabs my hair and pushes my head on his cock. It gets me very turned on! I have in the past had someone pushing on me be uncomfortable because of the position my body was in, his size, etc.k

I guess the message is, pay attention!