Greetings and question

topic posted Tue, November 13, 2007 - 10:48 AM by  Mama Gaea
jumping in here. Hope I don't splash too many people.

Does anyone have any suggestions for a BBW Bi-girl who wants to date other BBW women? I'm completely new and don't have a clue.

Blessings,
MG
posted by:
Mama Gaea
Portland
  • Re: Greetings and question

    Thu, November 15, 2007 - 3:25 AM
    All I can say is treat her as you want to be treated and just as any relationship you have been in be loving and gentle. I treat other men I date the way I want to be treated and it usually works out great for a while till I end it. They are usually in the understanding that it is short term. Well I hope all works out for you and you might want to check into my tribes list and join up on the unconditional tribe it is really great for the beleif that everyone should be loved no questions asked.

    Will
    • Re: Greetings and question

      Sun, November 18, 2007 - 11:49 PM
      Thank you, Will. I may do that. I think I was already in the Unconditional Love tribe at one point. But I'm working through some trust issues, so at the moment, I am working on reconciling unconditional love and still setting proper boundaries. I'm getting better at it, though.
  • I don't think its any more difficult

    Mon, November 19, 2007 - 1:53 PM
    for BBW seeking BBW than it is for any W for W. Check out gay/bi groups in your area, would be my first suggestion. And don't be shy; I've found that many queer women are very much size-neutral. Not that fat phobia doesn't exist in every community, of course. Second suggestion is just to get out there in whatever groups/activities interest you.
    • Re: I don't think its any more difficult

      Wed, November 21, 2007 - 12:05 AM
      I actually have been getting some very good response from an ad I put on Yahoo Personals. Funny thing is, I originally wrote it to attract a man and didn't get any bites. I've got plenty when i changed to looking for women. Go figure. :)
      • I wish you luck.

        Wed, November 21, 2007 - 1:35 AM
        Personals have been a source of great frustration for me. Not that there aren't interesting women out there, but there seems to be an astonishing number of flakes and an epidemic of getting cold feet at the last minute. One of my fave lines from Queer as Folk was something along the lines of "With the Internet, getting laid is as easy as ordering a pizza. Of course, you have to accept the fact that the delivery boy doesn't show up half the time."

        But let's not dwell on the negative. I met my current sweetie through an ad on Craigslist, and we've been together for an astonishingly long time -- even more astonishing considering she was looking for a couch and I was hoping for a hook-up.

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