My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

topic posted Fri, July 13, 2007 - 2:26 AM by  Cindy
My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

Good boys!

Male Sex Slaves For Women
tribes.tribe.net/sexslaves

The rules they've agreed to:

All males in this group must follow the sexual commands of the women in the group that are within a 50-mile driving distance. If she says, “come over to my place and take off your clothes”, you do so even if she wants you to get naked in front of a room full of people. If she says, “give me a massage and then lick my pussy”, you do so. If she rolls over and says, “now, lick my butt”, you do so. If she says, “pleasure my friend,” you pleasure her friend.

Within this group only the females are allowed to make any kind of sexual requests or offers. Male slaves must have a picture of yourself in your profile and it also must contain your location. These rules do not apply to the women in the group.

There is also a private "Male Sex Slaves for Women" tribe set up for women, and the males at this site are also their sex slaves.

This Tribe is strictly set up for free exchanges. Fem-doms offering services that are tied to “financial domination” will have their advertisements deleted. Likewise any other advertisements for pay such as for pay porn-sites, professional dating services, professional strippers (male or female), etc. will be deleted.

Nothing involving pain, poop, minors, or that is unsafe is required of our male sex slaves, but all safe and sane sexual commands from our women are mandatory for men to stay in the tribe. Have fun!
posted by:
Cindy
California
  • Re: My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

    Mon, July 16, 2007 - 11:05 PM
    Sounds like a fun tribe!

    Thanks for telling us about it!

    I am a switch that leans towards the dominant side for SM and the submissive side for bondage (without discipline).

    While I'm personally not into Master/Mistress/slave or 24/7 TPE (total power exchange) BDSM I recognize the importance of it.

    I think that the best Doms/Dommes have subbed before and the best Masters/Sirs/Mistresses have been boys/girls/slaves before to experience the other side.
    • Re: My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

      Sat, July 21, 2007 - 9:52 AM
      No offense, I just find this posting weird. It seems to me that women have been made into sex objects for so long, that turning the tables so to speak and making a man their sex object, really still makes the woman the sex object in that the man still is getting what they want just pretending to be the one being used. Or is it just me that thinks so?
      • Re: My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

        Mon, July 23, 2007 - 5:03 AM
        No, Schirin, you are not alone. That posting feels like spam to me, also.
        A guy should get to know me real well before becoming my "slave" or my "Master" or "Daddy" for that matter.... I mean, what if I told them to go jump in the lake or something.... lol
        • Re: My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

          Mon, July 23, 2007 - 12:30 PM
          "That posting feels like spam to me"

          Yup - to me too. Especially when I saw it pop up on just about every tribe I belong to including the SLAA tribe which is for people recovering from sexual addiction. This person doesn't even read the tribes intro or purpose!
          • Re: My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

            Sun, July 29, 2007 - 11:26 AM
            OHmyGod.... they posted it in SLAA group, too?
            That said, I'm glad Clown said something about "so much judgment in a bi-sexual tribe?" This shows me that gossip is a waste of time. The moderator can always delete anything he/she considers spam. And no, spammers don't know or care about a group's general rules, written or not. I notice that in Tribe, spammers usually get ridiculed out of the group--unless, of course, a thoughtful discussion ensues instead. ;-)
      • Re: My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

        Wed, July 25, 2007 - 8:59 AM

        In all sexual / erotic play situations, do you think males are always the controller?
        Are all women victims always? Sexually objectifying male or female is not OK to you even with their consent?


        No offense, I am just curious.

        Regarding the post, I think the poster should be more careful about the tribes they are posting.
        I saw this post in various tranny boards, and these men should be scared lol....
        • Re: My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

          Wed, July 25, 2007 - 4:27 PM
          In all sexual / erotic play situations, do you think males are always the controller?
          Are all women victims always? Sexually objectifying male or female is not OK to you even with their consent?
          ~~~~~~~~~~~~~

          Personally speaking, no, no, and sure it's okay. But Schirin has a point. l don't think the men necessarily *pretend* to be submissive because l know men who simply ARE. But l do think that generally, she remains the sex object anyway. lt's actually a separate discussion, but l don't think it's necessarily wrong to objectify, mainly because with consent, then who cares and go for it, and without consent, it's still gonna happen anyway, and how we feel about it at that point has more to do with us than them. Our reactions and responses are our own.
      • Re: My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

        Wed, July 25, 2007 - 4:23 PM
        It seems to me that women have been made into sex objects for so long, that turning the tables so to speak and making a man their sex object, really still makes the woman the sex object in that the man still is getting what they want just pretending to be the one being used. Or is it just me that thinks so?
        ~~~~~~~~~

        l generally tend to agree.
        • Re: My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

          Wed, July 25, 2007 - 4:27 PM
          IMHO just reversing the roles is still "power over" and doesn't really cultivate *my* feminist vision of "power together."

          It's like a fraternity hazing system I guess. I call it "the Palestine effect."
          • Re: hazing system

            Wed, July 25, 2007 - 5:16 PM
            Speaking as one of Cindy's men, for me it has nothing to do with simply reversing roles. I am most often a bottom/sub whether my partner is a woman or a man. Care to explain that away as some kind of syndrome? My goodness.

            From what has been shared here, I agree she could have been more careful in the distribution, but the judgmentalism in an ostensibly bi forum is breathtaking.

            -- Clown
            • Re: hazing system

              Wed, July 25, 2007 - 6:48 PM
              You're right, I just don't get into the whole top/bottom thing. I should be more tolerant of things I don't understand. You're right! :)
            • Re: hazing system

              Fri, July 27, 2007 - 11:55 AM
              From what has been shared here, I agree she could have been more careful in the distribution, but the judgmentalism in an ostensibly bi forum is breathtaking.
              ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

              Personally speaking, it was the spammy nature of the post that originally bothered me, not as much the content. lt's actually turned into what l consider a good and interesting conversation, and finally has less to do with judging her or the content of her post than discussing what we think of the subject matter in general. YMMV, of course.
              • Re: hazing system

                Fri, July 27, 2007 - 12:03 PM
                I agree. I have no judgments what-so-ever about D/s games. My comments were about the 'way' in which the info was distributed without thought to specific tribe conternt. That's what made it appear to be spam.
            • Re: hazing system

              Mon, July 30, 2007 - 12:58 PM
              <the judgmentalism in an ostensibly bi forum is breathtaking>

              I don't consider the question posed judgmental, rather, just my own thinking...wondering if the women involved are unconscious on some levels to think that they are the ones in the power position in this sort of situation. The "sexual revolution" of the 60's only served to subjugate women even further.
              • Re: hazing system

                Mon, July 30, 2007 - 1:32 PM
                Well, yeah.

                Since the Equal Rights Amendment didn't pass, third-wave feminism amounts to a reification of the same old, unequal gender division of labor. It's just sexier now. At least if you follow fashion like that.

                And really, how many of we men are often already driving fifty miles to get laid with a woman? <raises hand> Might as well throw in "must pay for dinner," "pretend to agree with every crazy thing she says," and "complete honey-do list immediately, if not sooner." It already mentions "kiss ass and give massages, with no reciprocation." And this is so different how? ROFL
                • spartca

                  Wed, August 1, 2007 - 10:31 PM
                  dude you are so cynical; you can stay close to home and get bossed around. someone hurt you bad.

                  cmon we're not all like that!

                  and don't get me started on the complex differentiations between first second and third wave feminism, not to mention the tsunami of feminism that is coming.
              • Re: hazing system

                Sun, October 21, 2007 - 11:15 PM
                The "sexual revolution" of the 60's only served to subjugate women even further.

                =============================================================================================================

                How do you figure?

                Perhaps it has pushed women into their masculine, so that the polarity between the sexes has become muddied, but the way I see that it is part of evolution and another opportunity for personal growth.
          • Re: My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

            Fri, July 27, 2007 - 11:53 AM
            IMHO just reversing the roles is still "power over" and doesn't really cultivate *my* feminist vision of "power together."
            ~~~~~~~~~

            l agree. l'm all about the interdependent and symbiotic relationships. That's why l switch. :)~
            • Re: My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

              Fri, July 27, 2007 - 4:26 PM
              Ali-

              You go on with your big bad bi switch self!

              I don't get it, but hey, I don't have to. Party on.

              I guess the two or three of us vanilla poly bisexuals in the bay area can have our own sex party, if we ever find each other :)
              • Re: My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

                Fri, July 27, 2007 - 5:45 PM
                You go on with your big bad bi switch self!

                I don't get it, but hey, I don't have to. Party on.
                ~~~~~~~~~~~~

                Just to be clear, l mean 'switch' in the loosest manner. l don't really play D/s roles...l simply meant, on occasion, he rocks the party, and on occasion, l do. :)
                • Re: My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

                  Fri, July 27, 2007 - 6:57 PM
                  That's awesome! :)
                  • This is the maximum depth. Additional responses will not be threaded.

                    Re: My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

                    Sat, July 28, 2007 - 1:39 PM
                    "I don't get it, but hey, I don't have to. Party on. "

                    :D
                    I have a little story for ya. I don't know whether anyone would resonate with it or not, but I thought it was pretty cool!

                    So, I'm serving dinner to a pro-domme and her partner, who are close friends. I ask my guy to put a collar on me while I get the dinner ready and on the table, thinking, "this will be a fun game, and a bit of a turn-on." But what I do is I start coaching my partner, trying to get him to dominate me. I keep adding these suggestions about how he should be making ME feel. After about an hour of this obnoxious behavior, he says, "HEY, you need to stop talking! You are embarrassing me by implying that I don't know how to dominate you! Cut it out!"

                    I, of course, was terribly embarrassed and apologetic, but...sooo turned on! And, the pro-domme's partner said that it was rare that he'd ever seen two people in a "scene" handle it so well when one person dominated by refusing to dominate. There was no bickering, and it taught us to play very close attention to the fact that I tend to coach him all the time, and he is too passive about allowing it.

                    The whole interaction pushed our relationship to a different, much more conscious level. What I like about this kind of power play is the self-knowledge that can be gained by either giving up control, or being honored enough to take the reins.

                    Or, maybe you just have to try it to understand....
                    • Re: My Men Will Do What You Tell Them!

                      Sun, July 29, 2007 - 8:20 PM
                      Yup, tried it, didn't like it.
                      • i like ali's and spartca's opinion on power

                        Sun, July 29, 2007 - 9:52 PM
                        this orig post seems like spam to me as well and that it may take advantage of new male subs. i agree that power over and objectifying males just reinforces the same crap feminists have tried to work against.

                        however, consensual power play, now that i find a huge turn on. for me, the difference is in consent.

                        i notice this post was taken off other tribes due to it being regarded as spam and likely to exploit new slaves. seriously, what kind of slave needs to submit to someone he does not know well. that is just asking for trouble.
                        • Re: consent

                          Thu, August 2, 2007 - 6:35 PM
                          Kinnari,

                          I really tried to let this one go, but I can't. Why? Because I resent the suggestion that what you do is all about consent while what I do is naive and non-consenual. It is not. I would never knowingly participate in non-consensual activity, and I think it is your assumption about "Cindy's Men" that's naive.

                          I do believe I understand your basic concern, and it may apply to some. I don't know, and neither do you. But it does not apply to me. You paint with too broad a brush.

                          -- Clown
                        • Re: i like ali's and spartca's opinion on power

                          Wed, August 22, 2007 - 6:05 PM
                          i agree that power over and objectifying males just reinforces the same crap feminists have tried to work against.
                          ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

                          Actually, that's not quiiiiiiite what l said. What l was saying was that in most relationships, the woman is the primary object. This is often because men just don't get as much attention as women in general. lt was a pretty general statement. l don't necessarily think it's a bad thing, though, and as long as the male isn't being neglected, regardless of what role he's playing, l think it's great.

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